Why We Become Worse ?????

When nobody wants to become a worse person of atleast who they are today, then what really happens that makes us worse ????

It is a very big question but can be summerised in just one word and that is SURRENDER.

When we surrender ourselves to situation and to the people in and around us, which we all do sometime or the other in our life for taking care of so called the bigger responsibilities of life of professional and social sphere and neglecting completely our own self considering it not to be that important to be on the priority list is the major reason why we turn into a worse person: physically, mentally and spiritually.

Wanna know how ???

When we only take care of professional and social responsibilities and not personal one, we become negative over a period of time. Whenever talking about the responsibility we choose ourselve over and above us, we end up cribing and talking negative about it. Work place is not good, boss is not supportive, salary is way to less, relationship sucks, no fun in life at all and so on...... Sooner or later we keep looking for changes  like switching jobs often and even socialising or interacting with the unknown people to find happiness to get over the frustration of responsibilities we chose. The irony of the situation is that, the responsibility what we called the most important for us and because of which we didnt undertake our personal responsibility becomes the one which we always run from. So we neither give 100% there in our professional and social sphere and obviously we haven't even done aything in our personal sphere in any ways.

Another thing that happens when we surrender ourselves to situation and people and do not take care of the personal responsibility is we underestimate our own capabilities only. We become so used to of our robotic life that we forget to think, plan and then execute accordingly. We starts to think that professional and social responsibilities are the one that we can take care of on a daily basis and adding personal sphere can't be managed properly. This is nothing else but underestimating one own self because when we can step out to chase the world and can leave no stone unturned when it comes to our family, trust me taking care of personal responsibility is just a piece of cake for us. All we have to do is treat ourselves with the same importance as we give to our professional and social spheres.

We can easily perform our personal responsibility well by just doing a little bit for our own self daily in terms of our physical, mental and spiritual spheres, which i will share in my next upcoming blogs.

Till then, just remember to Indulge with Yourself daily.